LIFE N RELATIONSHIPS

Life as I started off saying is the animate / inanimate particle that grows and "Living" is passing through all stages of growth example: check out the milestones of a child's development. 

And then the little teenie winnie kidoo passes through phases and stages of metamorphosis that pass on from childhood to adolescence >> young adult  >>>> mature adult. Then there is Another very important phase :: "Marriage"::

Union of Man & Wife, growing as a couple leading to formation of a new nascent family with kids.

 Life thus traverses along the weeks rolling into months, the months into years. 

The years into decades, and finally comes the twilight age, where some people like me sit and wonder, some sit n suffer, while others worry... 

Kya hua? 

Kaise hua?

Kyun hua?.... 

Sab kuch to kar liya.... Par khushi kyun nahi mili ? 

Yes Doston, mein to khushi kyun nahi mili - par zarur vichar vimarsh karoongi. Par iske pehle, 

Let's discuss how people around us, affect us. Who are they, what role do they play in our LIFE? 

Let's  try n analyse through my mind, my experiences, interspersed with Life, & Living, It's meaning, it's phases n stages.

Let's go on.... 

&&&&&&&&&&&&&&-&--&&&&&&& Now that I've started this BLOG on "LIFE and Living"

Let's understand a few sterling points.

There are many facets of  "LIFE."

I shall use " Self" as an example from time to time. 

Life when I was a Kidoo

Life as I grew up from school and graduated to college, the process of growing up, the development of body, n mind, and their concomitant relationship with each other, the psychological, social and environmental growth of the Individual . 

Life as I understood, ..has lots of whirls & twirls, other than academic,social and psychosocial interventions

Started to understand that _

Life is the sum total of all kinds of activities, incidents and phases n stages from Birth to Death. But as you live your LIFE, a lot many characters _traverse in the passage of your life & Mind you.  ALL have a ROLE TO PLAY. 

The acquaintances, Classmates, the Comrades, the Companions, the Colleagues who can be categorised as Friends, and /or Relatives, all leave their impressions on our psyche. 

All the said groups may not be related with you, similarly the Relatives may not fall in any of the afore mentioned categories, 

(Teachers, Gurus, Mentors Peers & Seers are yet another but very pertinent category) !!! 

Yet, & Yet how you relate with each and every category, individually and/ Or collectively will lay the fundamentals of  Your RELATIONSHIPS which in turn will govern the maneouverability of how u deal with LIFE in General. 

Let's now touch a little on the very basics of "RELATIONSHIPS"

LIFE N RELATIONSHIPS!!! 

What & how would you like to describe life with Relatives? 

This is the Mooldhara of Good Living. 

Lots of people have tried to analyse the most complicated bandhan: 

The broad spectrum of Relationships is deeply rooted.

Nowadays the growing thought process is that while some relationships are simple, most of them more often than not, are quite complicated ; they are actually quite complex, and can be labelled as weird, & or difficult to handle. Another term " FRAGILE_ Handle with CARE"!!! may be a better simile to explain "Relationships"

Thousands of people have tried to analyse this term. Till date, no one has been able to do justice to it. 

I'm no connoisseur, of Rishtey darees, but yes, as we progress, me too will deal, dissect, and deeply delve into this Herculean subject. But for now, let's try and see and and understand another scenario, what if there were NO relatives. 

Is that possible, : Obviously not!!!

But today, for so many reasons (we will discuss this in more details at a later date! ) many feel _No relatives, means no Entanglments!!! 

Like wise, less relatives/ less involvements/ lesser reasons for arguments & tensions!! 

Does it really happen like this??? Surely, clearly, obviously it does NOT!!!! 

Relations are those with whom u interact, very closely, since u are born into that FAMILY. 

On the other hand, the other categories of people, be it acquaintances, friends, or Colleague's, are all circumstantial. Yes, some from one category may flow n grow into the other category, but the ground reason will always be the BASICS (Either u are a Relative Or NOT) 

What ever group or subgroup u are from, one thing strikes out loud and clear. 

You need people around you. 

The underline harsh and hard truth is: No one can really do without interaction with another human being( whatever category they belong to)

Time now to understand the term "Relatives"

So, who are Relatives really? 

What do they mean to u. &&&&& Like wise:

Who are FRIENDS??? 

What n where is their place in your LIFE!! 

Can Relatives be your friends? n vice- versa.? 

Who are Contacts, what is the difference between contacts/ colleagues /companions/circle of friends. 

What is their meaning for you? Have they left any mark on you? Oh ! As I write ..there is a battery of questions that have started to pour out from my brain, onto the 🧡, and via the pen , as I write all this, I'm trying to find answers myself !!! 

As I go along this Blog on life, let me first leave Rishtaas & Relationships,( I assure you, I shall cover in detail about Relationships later as we progress on this Blog on LIFE)

..WHY

...WHY

Why is another.. pertinent & important Q   

Why does man suffer? 

The reasons are so many?

 Inspite of having the power to accquire most things that we desire and Or need, WHY do we feel unhappy? 

 It's OK for people who cannot afford, and do not have the means to fulfill their desires to feel frustrated, but why us? 

Some more questions that still plague my mind.

So much of every thing in abundance, yet why so much of negativity? 

So much of depression/ angst/ mayhem & tension in this world.

Why, I could not get/or, achieve all that I wanted? 

.What stopped it all? 

Why are there so many hurdles in life? 

Why do things go wrong? 

Why do things go adverse? 

Why do we not succeed? 

Why are our Goals so far away? 

What goes wrong? 

The questions were & are still innumerable!!!! 

If i face all these questions and am looking for answers, I'm sure most if you also would be plagued by scores of such queries. The intensity with which you may think about them, would definitely wary, 

Yet, you too would want to know such answers. 

ARE YOU ALSO FACED WITH SUCH A DELIMMA??? 

Having whet your appetite, I'm gonna leave u now...... 

Wait for me next week please..... 

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And Yes 

This is Life!!!!!